Parents can agree to share time differently, but only a court can change a Georgia custody order, and an informal arrangement does not by itself earn either parent a new one.
The Order Still Controls
The statewide parenting plan form in Uniform Superior Court Rule 24.10 says it plainly: “Custody shall only be modified by court order.” Our post on Georgia’s lack of a standard visitation schedule covers its sentence on trading parenting time.
For example, in Graham v. Holmes, 218 Ga. App. 796 (1995), a father with custody let the mother have far more time than the decree gave her for over three years, then cut her back to the decree after he remarried. She asked for custody or more visitation. The trial court kept custody with him but enlarged her visitation, and the Court of Appeals affirmed: “Even a lengthy voluntary departure from the court-ordered plan, favorable to one parent, does not ripen automatically into a change of condition which that parent has a right to institutionalize.”
Similarly, in McManus v. Johnson, 356 Ga. App. 880 (2020), parents let their child spend many extra nights with the father, and he asked for custody. The Court of Appeals affirmed a temporary order of alternating weeks, but cautioned that “an agreed-upon change in the visitation schedule, as opposed to a voluntary surrender of custody, does not alone constitute a change in circumstances.”
Surrendering Custody Is Different
In Shotwell v. Filip, 314 Ga. App. 93 (2012), a mother who moved to Oklahoma left her son with his grandmother in Missouri, assuring the father it was temporary. Years later, the trial court found she had voluntarily surrendered physical custody, a material change, and gave the father primary custody. The Court of Appeals affirmed.
To make a new arrangement binding, ask the court to change the order; see our post on how to change a custody order.
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